I will begin by both apologizing to and applauding Elsie Postey, whose name I somehow edited out of last week's story about Blankets for Canada. Donna Loos had told me about Elsie's contributions to Blankets for Canada. Elsie makes and donates approximately four quilts and an afghan blanket every month to Blankets and she has been doing so for twelve years! So, I should have absolutely included her in the story as her dedication and commitment is admirable and inspirational.
Whether we think we are inspirational or not, it seems like it's simply a part of life's routines to commit to something and to devote years of time and energy to a worthy cause. It's actually quite impressive, though, to hear stories about people who were married for 60 years or who took care of people with special needs, or who worked the same service job from out of school until retirement. These examples are noteworthy for their humble heroism and when it comes down to it, the commitments we make may be based on everyone simply playing a bit part in the big movie of life. Though some seem to be lead roles, we would have no story without the supporting actors.
We all commit, to a lifestyle, to a marriage, to children and family, to a pet (or five), a sports team, a brand of coffee. Even as young people we dove in head first once we discovered something we loved, such as music, art, a sport, a hobby or a craft.
We have our inherent commitments, such as being part of a family, being a friend, a good employee and a law-abiding citizen. Then there are other commitments we can make that involve more responsibility, such as those we make with other people or with animals or young humans in our care.
Flossing and brushing are a commitment more people need to choose, unless they want to commit to a dental insurance plan! (Which costs more?)
We usually have choices about financial commitments. A few years ago, I committed to making sixty car payments, which takes five years. It was a very long five years, but it was still my choice to buy a brand new car! We wanted the peace of mind that came along with roadside assistance and the warranty. It's comforting to know nothing can really go wrong with the car. Plus, we had 0% financing. But since I have committed to staying in Weyburn, it seems better to go a few years without any payments. Time is money, so I can now commit more of my time to serving in my community, even if it means driving a less-than trendy car.
My husband and I chose to dig in our heels by starting a business in Weyburn and planting a forest in our yard. We have a long-term vision for Weyburn and we are excited by the potential we have here for innovative community programs.
Vision-holding is a commitment in itself, but action has to start somewhere as well. Most of us could stand to get involved in more local groups committed to improving our society and each of them could use our hands, feet, minds and hearts.
Following a religion that involves going to a temple or church, praying and reading, obeying lifestyle guidelines, or even adopting a home yoga practice, requires a great deal of commitment.
Most businesses and organizations use the words Committed to serving {...} in their mission statement. In fact, if only more people would simply commit to serving, then we could see more lasting improvements in the world.
We might be reluctant to commit to ourselves, perhaps to eat less or to work out a few days per week, or to stop gambling, smoking, drinking or watching reality television. But we are all capable of committing to change when we consider the impact our choices have on those around us. I've said it before... our loved ones are worth it.
As wedding season approaches, many couples are busy planning and organizing their dream weddings. Some people get really carried away, with extravagant decorations and hundreds of guests. It's like some sort of celebrity function. But it's just one day. Even though it's the first day, the official beginning date of the marriage, it's also the most unrealistic day of the entire marriage. True commitment is defined during the days when 'for sicker' and 'for poorer' require fulfillment.
So, however we choose to define our many commitments, we should be thankful to be part of a greater tapestry with others who are devoted to co-creating a better world, beginning in our own community.
This year, I shall commit to a hair colour but not to a specific style. I'll also rededicate my commitment to washable shopping bags. So, how's that for digging in my heels?
